The Gentle Refusal to Go Numb

There are louder ways to resist.
Anger. Withdrawal. Collapse.

But there is also a quieter choice—one that asks for steadiness instead of spectacle.

Going numb is often framed as self-protection. We tell ourselves we’re conserving energy, staying neutral, keeping peace. But numbness is not peace. It’s the absence of presence. And over time, it costs more than it saves.

The gentle refusal to go numb doesn’t look dramatic. It looks like staying awake to grief without drowning in it. It looks like noticing beauty without needing to escape into it. It looks like feeling the weight of the world and choosing to remain human anyway.

This kind of resistance doesn’t shout.
It breathes.

And in a culture that rewards anesthesia, staying present is an act of quiet courage.

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